There is the way of the mind by which we conduct our lives in relation to others. As we grow up, depending on our environment, what the world throws at us, and our inclinations, we collect a set of ideals that inspire us, motivate us, drive us, to achieve, to attain. Naturally, some ideals are thrown away, some new are acquired as we grow.
In this there is a great role of family, friends, society. A good and stable family, friend circle, society, provides us with the freedom and ability to set our ideals and supports us in attaining them.
Yet as life happens, we all have this desire to lose oneself to one or more things. That is the way of the heart. This is something that is not taught to us, but here and there, growing up, we perceive it to be true.
Most of us, oscillate between the two. The ones whose mind is strong we climb the mountains, we sacrifice ourselves. The ones whose heart is strong, we sacrifice ourselves, we climb the mountains.
My Nonsense.